The Michelangelo Effect

One day, Michelangelo was asked how he created his famous statue of David. He simply replied, “I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free.”

To most people, that block of marble was just a rock—flawed, heavy, and unremarkable. But Michelangelo saw something hidden within. With every strike of his chisel, he removed what didn’t belong, revealing the masterpiece that had always been there.

Now, think about this: What if you are that block of marble? And what if the right people in your life—the ones who truly see you—are your sculptors?

Let Me Explain

The Michelangelo Effect is when people believe in us so deeply that they help shape us into our best selves. They see potential we don’t always recognize, pushing us to grow beyond our doubts.

Think about it:

• A teacher who saw talent in a student before they did.
• A mentor who guided an entrepreneur past fear.
• A friend who reminded you of your greatness when you forgot.

We don’t rise alone. The right people shape us, just as Michelangelo shaped his statues.

Let’s Deep Dive

Some people only see what’s on the surface—your flaws, insecurities, or the things you haven’t achieved yet. But those who truly believe in you look deeper. They see your potential, even when you don’t.

The impact of having the right people in your life is profound:

• They challenge you to step outside your comfort zone.
• They remind you of your strengths when you doubt yourself.
• They hold you accountable to your highest standards.
• They push you to see beyond your current limitations.

Just like a sculptor chisels away at a block of marble to reveal the masterpiece inside, these people help remove the fears, doubts, and excuses that keep you from becoming who you’re meant to be.

But here’s the key—you must also be willing to let them. Growth isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes, their belief in you will feel like pressure. But pressure is what turns coal into diamonds.

Bringing It Home

You are the marble. The right people are your sculptors.

Find them. Keep them close. Let them help you carve out the best in yourself.

And in return? Be a sculptor for someone else. See the masterpiece in them and help bring it to life.

“We rise by lifting others.” — Robert Ingersoll

Your Turn

Who in your life has shaped you into a better version of yourself? Have you told them?

And who needs you to believe in them today?

Learning never stops.
Take a moment to reflect and act on what resonates with you.
Keep evolving.

— MJ Nyota